How exciting! Now comes the fun event of having a baby shower.
But what is a baby shower really? why have one? is it a must ? does it have to be a surprise? what do I do? what do i wear? Can i make suggestions? When to start planning? Who hosts the baby shower?
So many questions right? Well hopefully i can help ease your mind and answer some questions, I myself encountered during my pregnancy.
Although I've attended my fair share of baby showers , i guess i never really paid attention to all that details that went into one. I would showed up eat and bring a gift. However i soon realized(when my turn finally came.) Theirs a lot of conditions and etiquette to a baby shower and I was completely clueless as usual (I hope im not alone on this boat.) After much self educating, asking questions and hosting my fair share of showers. Now i know what to do, how to act and how to answer these question Miraculous Mommies.
First things First What is a baby shower? A baby shower is a way to celebrate the pending birth or recent birth of a child, by presenting gifts to the parents at a party.
Why have one? The intention is for other women to come together and share their wisdom and lessons on the art of being a mother. Most friends and family take this time to bless the new parents with some type of baby related gift (This is why we register mommies.)
Who plans this event? Now this one is really a tricky one to answer, because baby shower etiquette states that a family friend should host the shower, because it is considered rude for a family member to beg for gifts. However i believe its really up to the new mommy's culture, and beliefs.
Example Some cultures like mine ( Hispanic Background) Its very usual for a family member ( LIKE GRANDMA OR A SISTER/SISTER IN-LAW) to host the shower in honor of the relationship you share with them.
They're are also cultures and beliefs were new moms have no baby shower because its believed that if the parents make a deal/celebration or buys to many items prior to the baby's arrival it might cause something bad to happen to the baby. (Its really all up to mommy to be and what she feels comfortable.)
What if no one throws me a baby shower? Personally i think its even better, because the ball is in your court now ( I LIKE TO ALWAYS HAVE CONTROL SORRY not SORRY, BUT I HOPE THIS HAPPENS TO NO WOMEN EVER!! AND YOU GET SUPREMELY BLESSED WITH A GORGEOUS PARTY IN YOUR HONOR.) But if not you no have all control in choosing your babies needs, and if your on a budget you will now know what you need and can start searching and saving for the new arrival.
But i still want a party? Throw a gender reveal party, so many cute ideas to do! ( look out for tutorial on ideas for a gender reveal party.)
Does it have to be a surprise? This one really depends on the host. If your host is a close family member or friend they might let you know when its happening so you can be ready. but most host will leave out the details on whats happening so you can be surprised. or if your like my mom who allowed me to help plan my own baby ( Due to my OCD with event planning) you'll be a part of it at every step and you might just encounter that host who surprises you completely! (Tip: if you don't like surprises or would like to have a say, hint around and let them know you'd like to help or know some information about the shower.)
When to start planning? Well as soon as you find out what your having tell the world! ( If you want.) With time you or your host can carefully plan, budget and have a really creative shower. I noticed many friends and family members seem to be pregnant around the same time, so set a date that is convenient for everyone attending and doesn't clash with someone else event. (Spoiler alert ill be adding a blog post for hosting a baby shower and some great diy's.)
I'm so big what do i wear? Honestly the outfit is the best part of it all. The day of your shower your belly will be rubbed and posed with a million times by all your guest. So i suggest accentuate and show that baby bump off! its a great reason to shop. Also pamper your self before, you deserve a nice trip to to the salon and Get a Mani + pedi or splurge a little on a prenatal massage or cute photo session. Enjoy this time my miraculous mommies ( hope i was able to answer some questions or concerns. (Look out for my Miraculous maternity fashion post and how to keep it comfortable, fashionable and friendly on the pocket.)
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