Worry no more, chances are your partners love for sports is completely healthy and a normal part of being a man.
Just how Miraculous Wives Or Mommies need some sort of outlet (SHOPPING!), So do all those Miraculous Husbands and Daddies.
My opinion is just let him enjoy it and even indulge it. Indulge it? but why? All he wants to do is rush home and watch that dumb game, or spend ridiculous amounts of money on tickets and jerseys?
Truth is id prefer my husband to be obsessed with watching a soccer game then to be addicted to watching pornography or another type of perverted show. Yes i said it Porn!! Oh NO! Do not get me wrong, being a sports fanatic doesn't shelter you from those shows or that temptation. But as a Wife we have to be wise and i prefer him to spend money on tickets and jerseys then on another women or guilty pleasure, After all he works hard for his money he deserves to enjoy it too!
I know there are many cases of men who are completely obsessed with there sports team and that can cause conflict in a marriage. As wife we often seem to take the high road on many things to avoid a fight. But this a fight ladies is one I believe can be easy to win. The key is balance , try to level with him the amount of time he spends watching his team or the amount of money he spends. Also take a look inside and evaluate the things you might be obsessive over and compromise with him. Attempt to share his likes (and if you just cant like it! ) Create a new mutual hobby to share . Coming to a middle ground during any conflict may seem difficult but everything has a resolution with a little patience and wisdom you will get far!
For Miraculous wives like myself, who just happened to marry a man who's having a slight affair with a sports team (REAL MADRID) indulge it all the way! If you have no idea whats going on ( LIKE ME) Google the rules on the games, you'll be surprised how a short article can enlighten you so fast and make watching a whole game more bearable. My husband likes when i ask him questions about the game i silently believe he likes teaching me something new that i know nothing about.
Try and make a party out of it, ( I Love any reason to have a party!) making a special recipe or ordering in some junk food just might do the trick to ignite the flame to get you excited for that upcoming game.
Also I've noticed my husband seems more eager to help me out or bond with me after hes had a couple hours to him self, which is a big bonus.
After not knowing anything about soccer (and still not knowing that much), I've come to enjoy the excitement of the game and even get a little entertained myself (By no means am i athletic this is a BIGGG DEAL!) they're are many ways to bond with your husband take it and run with it!
Let me, Let you in on a little secret being married to sports fanatic is actually a pretty awesome thing when it comes to holiday gift giving. Its actually crazy all the things they sell online, in stores and even at the grocery store with sports logo on it. The possibilities are endless and dads just love all that sport logo stuff. Literally i'm set on gift ideas for the next 5 years lol! (Thanks REAL MADRID)
So miraculous mommies, Go on and let daddy be miraculous too!
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