Love is truly blind, or so they say. But i believe Love is what you make it and part of making it is making it last.
But how? Well prior to getting married i had my fair share of crazy, weird and just very wrong for me relationships. I will not be that women who just blames it all on the guys i dated, because i must say i could have been a way better women in many scenarios. I loved in all the wrong ways, I now am sure its because i didn't know what Love really was. Not because i was never loved as a I child or daddy issues, or anything like that. It because i never took the time to prioritize loving my self first. Instead i took poor innocent people for the ride of their lives and at the end of each heart break i was in a worse place than before.
Loving your self first is not a beauty or job title thing, its a self esteem thing all the way! I am truly convinced that loosing weight or being successful wont secure your love or self worth.those things they don't love you back.
A key to having love and staying in love to a man is to love who you are, what you stand for and what you aspire to do along side your husband or alone.
A husband may love you to infinity and beyond, and your heart my ache beyond that love.
I believe everyone is searching for love, whether they admit it or not, because we were designed to be loved and to love.
Almost 3 years ago i took a look at my life, and realized i needed love, and not love from a man, but self love, a love that kept me going and prepared me to be loved my someone else. I made the decision to right my wrongs, and love those who have wronged me no matter what, and too always love myself no matter i might feel , or hear. 1 year into that decision i met the man of my dreams who showed me love and respect that i had never encountered before.
Every Love story has a journey, but start writing the one that involves you today! Remember Love is what you Make it so Make it Miraculous!
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